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PART 1 of Mindset Matters: Are You Building A Prison Or A Palace?

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(Mindset Matters is a series relating to mindset, challenging you to identify blockages or negative thinking patterns and, hopefully, it will be helpful in breaking those barriers to your thinking that may be limiting you in your everyday lives. LockyJ :) PART 1  Mindset Matters: Are You Building A Prison Or A Palace? Having recently bought a house I have been "investing" in learning how to develop property, seeing as this is my first house and it certainly fits the "renovators dream" sales pitch! Video's, blogs, books, and podcast that deal with home improvement, property development and the like I have been trying to devour, in order that I can make the most informed decisions for improvements I make. So here I was the other day, I was listening to a podcast by a successful property developer, the podcast was all about how they went from nothing to the wildly successful billionaire they are today. The interviewer was doing a great job, getti...

Rain Drop Reality

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Last week it was raining, that slow steady drizzle that we all associate winter days with. The kind of day that has a crisp snap to the air, as that of a scolding parent should you dare head outside without a coat. The clouds laboured their way across the skies, heavy and ominous, threatening at any moment to spill forth their cargo as in protest. And the rain ? The rain fell softly, almost lazily, from the sky above. Raindrops, like casual shoppers at a sunday market, drifted here and there on a whim. I was stopped at the traffic lights in my car when an errant rain drop, more enthusiastic than the others, snapped me out of my reverie with a "plop" right in front of my face. I had my mind on work, family and all the stresses of the day to day grind, my mind existing in another plane of creation far from the reality that I was actually experiencing. So disconnected had I become to the natural world that I watched in awe as the rain drop meandered down my windo...

Adversity: The Greatest Opportunity.

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Sometimes life just doesn't go your way. Sometimes plans just fall apart, no matter how hard you try to keep them together. And that sucks, it really does. I feel that too many of our generation have been sold this idea that things will work out, that job you want will fall in your lap, you will have that glamour relationship, the flashy car and the nice house in the good street. Now, these are just examples,heck it could be that your dreams are a small cottage in the woods, pet ducks and pigs meandering in your front yard and not a person in sight. Whatever the innermost dreams you have are, I am sure that failing to attain these goals does not sit well with you nor feature heavily in the playing out of them in your mind. And, that's good, it really is. BUT It was Henry Ford who said " Success is 99% failure"! So, I'm thinking perhaps we should sit with our failures MORE right ? Spoiler Alert, you ALREADY know how to do this !!! I h...

STUNNING CONTENT WRITING UP FOR GRABS !!!!!

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Do you run a website ? Do you have a small business ? Do you struggle to find the time or creativity to whip up outstanding content to keep your customers coming back for more ?? Do you feel you can't afford hiring a content creator ? Do you think you would love to hire a content creator but don't know where to start looking ? LockyJ Writes IS your solution. From creating cracker creative content to making metaphors mix melodically, I will work with each and every customer to provide a tailor made solution, whatever your word whims may be !! Content MATTERS! Content creates customers. Customers create business. It's that SIMPLE. You don't get just any ol' Tom, Dick or Harry to build your dream house right ? You employ the best craftsmen to turn your dreams into reality. IT'S A NO BRAINER. The digital landscape is NO DIFFERENT !! FIRST IMPRESSIONS COUNT. You often only get ONE SHOT to turn a casual browser into a captur...

The Accountability Perspective

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Some days you just get fed up, sick of what is happening in your life and all the things that are not going quite to plan. You get disheartened. Disappointed. Frustrated. Angry at your circumstances, your close family and friends, but mostly at yourself. Then you start to BLAME . You blame everyone else for what has happened, the weather, the boss's favoritism, anything you can think of at the time. You blame anything and everything, except concentrate on the ONE person who you should focus on. YOU !! Now notice I said FOCUS,  not blame, because blame will NEVER get you the results you want. Think about it for a moment, when you blame anyone or anything what result do you get ? It is always a NEGATIVE result. You blame the other person for getting "that job", "that park", you blame the "rich" for you not getting anywhere. What happens ? Sure, you may feel a momentary sense of vindication and validation, fleeting as...

Movie Of The Human Soul

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Sometimes, you have to just marvel at the wonder of life. Today, I grabbed a cup of coffee and watched the clouds roll by my verandah like pedestrians on a busy street. It caused me to contemplate how we all see things differently and how each one of us has our own story to create just by living. Each one of us has our own movie that we are making and that movie is ONLY to be watched by you. YOU decide the plot,the characters and the set location . The movie is your LIFE. SO, With inspiration armed and coffee charged, the words began to flow. I hope these words inspire you all to create the greatest block buster that YOU could ever imagine, after all, the movie you are making is ONLY for YOU . :) LockyJ Movie Of The Human Soul Beat, beat. Blink, blink. Ears to sip upon the sounds of life, the souls audio straw. Plugging in the heart, hearing moments tunes. Beat, beat. Ears to sip upon the sounds of life, music on the canvas pour. ...

The Death Of Adventure Part 2 : Adventure Awakened

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Over 10 years ago I took  flight to Costa Rica, a snap decision made in under a week from booking to flying out. Just me, a back pack, a lonely planet guide book and a burning desire to travel. I had barely a word of Spanish under my belt, enough money for a few months if I was frugal & a rough idea that I wanted to back pack from Mexico to the bottom of South America. The palpable sense of adventure & excitement was ENORMOUS. But so too was FEAR. When I stood at the departure gate in a small rural airport & looked out at the single engine plane that would take me to the international airport , I really stared down the fear that was screaming at me to stop this madness. Was I CRAZY ?!! My friends and family all said I was, so I must be right ?? Who travels to the other side of the world, no plans, no insurance, no financial back up and no way of knowing if I would be able to call home for help if it all went pear shaped ? Friends and family were ...